How do you judge a person to be goth or not?

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I don't like labels, but i fit into either goth, or emo, though not to the extreme of the word. I like to think of myself as a 'dark romantic'. I judge people by their speech, their thoughts. If you saw me on the streets, you'd think i was the most normal girl in the world, yet once you hear me speak my mind on matters, you can immediately tell i fit into the 'goth' label. I don't think it has to do with the way you dress or do your make up. It's the way you act, you think, you talk. Some people dress up like 'goths' merely because they like the fashion.